In Search of Mr. Gentleman

Though it’s true that change is inevitable and men are subjects of these changes, it is still significant to point out the negative sides of their transformation. It will take long moments in order for human beings to accept and adapt the current surroundings around them and I know, as a being, it is really hard. Change, however, replaces something in exchange for another; thus, it is a gloomy fact that most men today lost the most precious gift they inherited from their ancestors – their being gentlemen. I know that you will agree with me that although not every man you know abandoned this trait but you can still see the differences. This blog entails the disappearance of the gentleness in every man’s character and just what an important part it is that the current society needs its revival.

  • “I’m on a heroic mission.”

To start with, it is quite noticeable in some public places that men are somewhat absent-minded of their responsibilities as “men”. It is too mainstream if you are walking in one of the crowded street then someone pushes you from behind with great force that you also push the one at your front and creates a domino effect in that packed area. Then you look to see the offender and as you expected it would be a tall with a broad shoulders making his way in that no-other-way-cause-its-a-crowded place. It would be understandable that you are in a date Mr. In-a-Hurry and you are obviously one year late but it is not good to just bang your solid shoulders on the ones who block your way because the street is not your personal property. Especially when you hit on women even though it is too risky to make haste because you’re tall enough to say to yourself that, “The Street is crowded, okay? CROWDED!”

Some men just don’t see the consequences of how they act in public areas especially that there are women who observe how they conduct their manners. Mostly it’s something not to be happy about.

  • “First Come, First Serve” and “First In, First Out”

Men, especially gentle ones, are supposed to let the girls enter a vehicle first and she must be the last one to climb out. In places where doors are present [which is the usual case], let the girls enter while you are holding the knob. However, this is already a seldom practice nowadays. It should be a bonus point in your part to open for their doors and serve them their seats – you just increased your handsomeness, guys! Some men just let other girls find their own ways to enter a vehicle especially when they are in a hurry. Try to understand that girls are girls; clumsy and controlled, so give way first because you’re not as clumsy as they are, right?

  • “I’m not the RIGHT guy for you.”

Going back to the streets. Well, streets are wide earth with fast moving wheels going to and fro and there are lanes at the sides for the walking individuals going to work, school, malls, and other destinations. Men, if you are with girls, which side will you be? Of course to the part where you are safe from those cars that might kill you on the spot! Yes,

that is mostly what others are probably doing when they are walking with girl friends, girlfriends, or even female strangers. In times like this, you should be letting the girls be on your left side which means that you should be at her right side. Forget those moving things and concentrate on how you can save someone from complete danger by putting yourself on the line. But please do remember precautionary measures to keep yourself safe before any drunk drivers wronged you as a post.

Men. You are born with dignity as superior beings since you are the caretakers of the creations. Also, you are created first than women. You have all the reasons to be thankful and one thing is giving importance to what is assigned for you to take care and protect. It is not stated however, that being a gentleman today is already a dead air and will vanish forever. The present is actually a breakeven point where right and wrong meet. It is in your hands to make a move and start the revival of this important trait and start a new race that will be respectful to women and to yourself as well. Treat ladies as ladies and the society will treat you as men – the honored men.